The Question “I am looking for a younger woman but most women want to date someone around their own age. ” – Anonymous Today’s question is from one of our readers who wishes to stay anonymous; we’ll call him Bill. Notice how Bill is already convinced that the younger woman he seeks will not be interested in someone his age.
This is a self fulfilling belief which is virtually guaranteed to come true.
If you believe deep down that you’re going to fail, then you will. In short, yes, you can absolutely find a younger woman that’s right for you.
And then think about what this perfect woman would be like. All of this may sound silly, but do you know that by simply writing down what you want, you increase your chances of getting it by 80%! We’re so busy being concerned about “what others will think” that we we’re afraid to pursue our own dreams.
Describe her in as much detail as you possible can. List her age, physical appearance, personality traits, hobbies, likes and dislikes, etc. Just think about that one for a minute…“The discipline of writing something down is the first step toward making it happen.”– Lee Iacocca Social stigmas and why do you care? Yes, many people love to pass judgment on others, but that’s their choice and their right.
Once your have described the perfect woman for you in great detail, fold up that piece of paper and carry it with you for 1 week. Why they do it is a larger topic for another day, but it’s really not important here.
No one else can possibly know what’s right for you, so why listen to them?
A wise person once said,“What someone else thinks about you is none of your business”.